S6E33: Vibrant Life in the Face of Metastasis: The Human Side of Cancer as a Chronic Illness

When advanced disease becomes a long-term reality, the journey changes. It requires strength, not just to survive, but to grow deeply and find a Vibrant Life in the Face of Metastasis.

This week, we talk about the incredible resilience of the human spirit that finds depth, clarity, and life’s true priorities when cancer is treated as a chronic illness.

In This Episode:

Transcript

  • 02:51 – South Dakota – Hot Springs and Kuchen
  • 03:31 – Advice Hotline – Get Life Tips from Senior Adults
  • 06:06 – Why Cancer is Now Considered a Chronic Disease
  • 09:00 – How Cancer Care is Adapting to the Complexity of Longer Lives with Cancer
  • 15:39 – Discussion with Charlie – What Are Early Cancer Symptoms; What About Secondary Cancers?
  • 20:52 – “My Hands” by- Joseph Hawkins
  • 22:02 – Outro

Beyond the “Battle”: Chronic Cancer

Fifty years ago, a cancer diagnosis often meant a short, intense battle. Today, thanks to incredible advancements in detection and treatments like immunotherapy, cancer is transforming into a chronic disease. We are seeing people with Stage IV, metastatic cancer living for ten years or more.

But this new reality—this longer life—comes with a profound and often unspoken human cost: the uncertainty of cycling on and off treatment, the relentless drain of financial toxicity, and the sheer exhaustion of staying engaged. How do you plan a life when the prognosis is always shifting?

In this episode, we explore what it truly means to manage advanced cancer as a chronic condition. We discuss the evolving, deeply personal relationship between the patient and their care team, the moment a diagnosis becomes a strange kind of gift that brings incredible clarity, and how we can all learn to focus on living well in the time we have.

Join us as we dive into the resilience of the human spirit when faced with the long game of chronic cancer care.

Why Is Cancer Now a Chronic Condition?

Cancer survivability has increased considerably in the past 20 years due to advances in detection and treatment. Even in case of Stage 4, metastatic disease, the cancer course can last many years. It is not considered a curable disease, but the focus is on management of the cancer growth to increase survival as long as possible.  So cancer is now considered to be a chronic disease.

People are living longer with cancer than they did years ago. Because of this, it is becoming more of a chronic disease. This table shows the prevalence of people living with metastatic disease, grouped by years since diagnosis.

How is Cancer Care Changing with the Complexity of Longer Survivorship?

Cancer care has changed, and so has what it means to live with cancer. For many people, especially those with advanced metastatic disease, cancer has become a chronic condition that can last for years. Treatments, relationships with the healthcare team, and even the meaning of survivorship have evolved. Listen to the full episode learn more about the facets of this evolution of survivorship care.

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Resources:

  • Dr Joseph Hawkins is Consultant in Palliative Medicine and Clinical Lead for End-of-Life Care at Ashford and St Peter’s NHS Foundation Trust. He has a degree in medical journalism in addition to medical qualifications and postgraduate degrees. He enjoys spending time with his family. ORCiD: 0000-0001-6715-9540 Twitter: @JoeHawk75825077.
  • National Cancer Institute (NCI)
    • Survivorship Resources: Cancer Survivorship – NCI; Offers comprehensive information on life after cancer, managing long-term effects, and survivorship planning.
    • Coping with Advanced Cancer: Advanced Cancer Long Term – NCI; Guidance for patients living with metastatic or chronic cancer, including emotional support and treatment planning.
  • American Cancer Society (ACS)
  • Cancer.Net (American Society of Clinical Oncology, ASCO)
  • National Comprehensive Cancer Network (NCCN)
    • Patient & Caregiver Resources: Guidelines for Patients
      Evidence-based guidelines for cancer care, survivorship planning, and chronic management strategies.
  • LIVESTRONG Foundation, Cancer Survivorship Resources: https://www.livestrong.org/we-can-help/survivorship
    Offers navigation support, financial guidance, and programs for patients living with long-term cancer.

Cancer Support Community https://www.cancersupportcommunity.org/
Provides free support groups, online communities, educational webinars, and tools for coping with chronic cancer.

Misericordia Place Life Advice Line

We learn about the adorable project to pass along life experience of elders, captured in the form of a pre-recorded Life Advice Line. See the post below explaining the project and the advice you can receive.

Recipe of the Week: Authentic Kuchen

This week we travel to South Dakota. German Girl in America tells us the story of German immigrants that brought their recipe for kuchen – pronounced “koo-khen,” which is German for “cake.” In both countries families today still gather around a large cake for coffee and warm companionship.

Learn how to make kuchen, the background, and even some historical comments from her readers. Get the recipe here: South Dakota Kuchen Recipe- A Volga German Legacy in America


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