How to rise above difficulties for sexual expression, love and connectedness
Serious illness can try to take so much from us. But does it have to take away intimacy and sexuality? Our attitude and creative approaches are key to maintaining this vital quality of life component.
Short on Time? Here’s where you can find these topics.
- 00:00 Intro and recipe
- 5:00 Essay: “I just learned I only have months to live. This is what I want to say”
- 15:00 Marianne: Sexuality and Intimacy
- 25:50 Discussion – lubricants vs moisturizers and more!
- 37:28 Claire on how she found intimacy as her husband battled brain cancer
There is a growing recognition of the public health importance of concerns related to sexuality and their implications for health, well-being, and quality of life. Sexuality is basic to being human. Sexuality is the capacity of the individual to link emotional needs with physical intimacy.
Sexuality and the ability to experience intimacy are vital to quality of life.
Sexual health within the context of serious illness has many facets. The disease or treatment can have direct impact on anatomical structures. Many times body image is affected. Commonly, fatigue and/or pain can decrease interest. And a partner’s concerns about causing pain to their significant other can be a unspoken barrier.
Listen to Marianne as she talks about common themes and challenges, as well as ways people have found to find physical intimacy in ways that go beyond intercourse.
A free guide on sexual health for women
Developed by Dr. Matzo and team, this is a witty, informal guide written to address sexual health and intimacy concerns for female cancer patients. It was part of a project funded in part by The American Cancer Society Grant #: 117514-PEP-09-200-01-PC titled “Improving Communication about Sexual Health for Adults Living with Ovarian Cancer”
Although this was written in cooperation with cancer patients, it is applicable to many illnesses that impact sexuality.
- How Chronic Illness Can Affect Sexual Function | AASECT:: American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
- Still being sexual in chronic illness – Evidently Cochrane
- Sexuality, Intimacy And Chronic Illness_FactSheet
“I just learned I only have months to live. This is what I want to say”
Jack Thomas, a journalist at The Boston Globe wrote this essay a year before his death at age 83. Listen as Charlie reads his thoughts. You can find the article at The Boston Globe here.
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