S6E24: Grounding Techniques “Life Hack”: Your Secret Skill for Surviving the Bad Days

Do you ever feel like your emotions are running the show? When emotions hit like a tidal wave, grounding techniques are your life raft. Learn three strategies to help you detach from the feelings and regain control.

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Transcript

  • 01:13 – Film Recommendations: Running on Empty and Defending Your Life
  • 04:22 – Road Trip to Colorado: Coffin Races and Granola Recipe
  • 07:51 – Grounding Exercises: Support Healing for the Body
  • 11:09 – Mental Grounding – Finding Something Else for Your Brain to Do
  • 13:27 – Physical Grounding – Focus on Physical Sensations Instead of Emotions
  • 15:30 – Soothing Grounding – Focus on Things that are Uplifting and Inspiring
  • 16:45 – Keys to Succeeding in Grounding
  • 17:58 – Discussion about Grounding – Follow Your Bliss and Make an Effort
  • 21:28 – “Brownie Mary” Hero to Terminally Ill Cancer and AIDS Patients for Her Marijuana Brownies
  • 27:48 – Outro

What Are Grounding Techniques?

Grounding techniques are quick, discreet tools that help you steady your mind, ease the intensity, and stay present…even in the middle of panic, grief, anger, and emotional pain.

Grounding Techniques can help you anchor in the present, calm the storm, and take back control. Whether it’s anxiety, grief, anger, or overwhelming memories, grounding gives your brain and body a way to step back from the edge so you can breathe, think clearly, and move forward. Think of them as emotional ‘life hacks’ that you can do anywhere, with no one being the wiser. Simple, powerful, and portable—you can do them anytime, anywhere. 

How Can I Use Grounding Strategies?

We discuss three strategies to target the three areas that trauma can affect us: our mind, our body, and our spirit.

  • Mental Grounding helps our brain focus on other tasks rather than the troubling emotion
  • Physical Grounding focuses on physical sensations, breathing and moving
  • Soothing Grounding focuses on things that are uplifting and inspiring

We also teach you about ways to practice and use these strategies so they are the most successful when you need them.

We have talked about mindfulness in our past episodes, how is it different from grounding?

Mindfulness is a broad practice of present-moment awareness with non-judgment, while grounding is a specific, often short-term, technique to bring oneself back to the present when feeling overwhelmed, providing a sense of safety and stability. You can think of grounding as a type of mindfulness exercise, but mindfulness is a broader lifestyle or mental state, not just an emergency technique for anxiety. 

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Road Trip to Colorado: Coffin Races and Granola Recipe

This week we travel to Colorado – Manitou Springs, at the base of Pike’s Peak – to be exact. There we learn about a story of an early resident, her interesting burial, and the fun tradition honoring it. And while we’re hiking in Colorado, you’re bound to get an appetite, so here’s recipe for Granola from Rocky Mountain Cooking.

Brownie Marie

In our third segment, Charlie tells us about Mary Jane Rathbun, the Marijuana Activist known as “Brownie Marie.” Rathbun had noticed that the marijuana helped AIDS patients and cancer patients with side effects like pain and nausea, and she baked a large amount of brownies to ease their suffering.

Mary Jane Rathbun, medical cannabis activist, handing out her famous brownies. National Hemp Service

Movie Recommendations

Looking for a movie or two this week? Marianne and Charlie mentioned a couple of movies in this podcast.

Marianne’s Pick: Keir Gilchrist, Lucy Hale, Francesca Eastwood and comic legend Jim Gaffigan star in a brilliantly quirky romantic comedy about celebrating life and living it to its fullest. Mortimer is an odd but clever young man living a lukewarm existence in California’s San Fernando Valley until he receives some life-changing news. Determined to make the most of every day, Mort sets out on a spirited quest to find meaning in his existence and discovers the girl of his dreams along the way.
Charlie remembered this oldie: Daniel Miller was tooling along a Los Angeles street, listening to “Something’s Coming,” when something came – a bus. One head-on collision later, Daniel wakes up deceased. And his troubles are just beginning. Meryl Streep joins writer/director/star Albert Brooks for a witty peek at the afterlife, where you can eat all you want and not gain an ounce. But there’s a catch: You’re saddled with Defending Your Life. If you can’t make a case for having lived a full and fearless one, you must go back to Earth and try again. Daniel’s life was far from fearless. But after he meets the remarkable Julia (Streep), he’s determined not to go back. Yes, there is a laugh after death!

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Everyone Dies: and yes, it is normal!

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