S4E2: What Happens to a Relationship when You Become a Caregiver?

Learn how becoming a caregiver for a partner changes the relationship

Do the dynamics of a romantic relationship change when you have to take care of your partner? Michael Porter talks about how he had to learn how to let the relationship with his wife change in the ways that it needed to. Michael joins us in the second of our series of interviews about caring for a spouse with dementing illness.

What Does Someone with Dementia Want?

The following segment was written by Rachael Wonderlin, a dementia care senior living consultant, brand developer and author, and read by Charlie on the podcast. It is titled, “16 Things I Would Want if I Got Dementia.”

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If you would like to learn more about Rachael’s work, visit Dementia By Day (rachaelwonderlin.com), where she helps us learn about “Embracing Their Reality” in dementia communication. Rachael has developed several products, blog, podcast, YouTube, and helpful caregiver community.

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Why Do We Wear Black at Funerals?

Charlie shared the very interesting history of the tradition of wearing black for funerals, starting from the 6th century. Be sure to listen to some of the surprising origins!

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From a mandatory display of mourning to the “little black dress” – black attire has an interesting history! (Image by Darksouls1 on Pixabay)

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Recipe of the Week

This fudge recipe, attributed to Maime Eisenhower – stands out as being less persnickety than most fudge. It calls for for semisweet chocolate morsels, German’s sweet chocolate, marshmallow cream, white sugar, salt, butter, canned evaporated milk and nuts. Head to Southern Living for the recipe and how-to video.

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This Million Dollar fudge recipe is sure to be one of your favorites after you see how easy it is to make! Head to Southern Living for the recipe and how-to video.

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There are many wonderful songs that could be played at a funeral. We also know there are songs that could be played, but are cringeworthy (e.g. Ding Dong the Witch is Dead; Another One Bites the Dust; Ring of Fire, etc.).

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