S3E14: 15 Ways to Help a Grieving Child

This week we talk about the challenges of a grieving child and offer ways that you can help. We celebrate the life of the Berlin Blockade’s Candy Bomber and share a fitting recipe for Candy Bar Brownie Bombs. We also welcome back Claire Luckey, known on Instagram as the Grieving Bitch. At age 33 her husband of 2 years died; she joins us to talk about her experiences as a millennial widow.

References and Resources for a Grieving Child:

Apart of Me

A UK-based application to guide children through grief. Apart of Me has been designed by grief experts and young people who have had a similar experience. So come and discover a magical, peaceful world populated by friendly creatures and a wise guide.

Apart of Me is freely available to download from both the iOS App Store and on Google Play.

Related E1D Podcasts for this Episode:

Farewell to “Uncle Wiggly Wings”

Gail Halvorsen was one of the pilots who flew a C-54 in support of Operation Vittles – the extraordinary Berlin Airlift that provided food for West Berliners suffering from a Soviet blockade in the early days of the Cold War.

Retired U.S. Air Force Colonel Gail S. Halvorsen, known commonly as the “Berlin Candy Bomber,” stands in front of C-54 Skymaster like the one he flew during WWII at the Pima Air and Space Museum in Arizona. U.S. Air Force photo/Bennie J. Davis III.

The then Lt Halvorsen found a creative way to comfort deprived German children: he used his own rations to buy candy and fashioned parachutes with handkerchiefs to airdrop them to children near Templeton airfield. He let the children know his was plane to expect goodies from by wagging his wings as he flew towards them, earning his knickname “Onkel Wackelflugel” or “Uncle Wigglly Wings.” He also came to be known as the Berlin Candy Bomber as the operation grew with numerous comrades joining in. More than 23 tons of candy were dropped during what became “Operation Little Vittles.”

A photo of “Hal’s” marriage proposal – he had attached the ring to a parachute! (RAF Museum)

Col Gail Halvorsen’s retired from the Air Force in 1974 with over 8,000 hours of flying time. Among other honors, he was awarded Congressional Gold Medal in 2014. He Died 2/16/22 at age 101.  Rest in Peace, Colonel Halvorsen, thank you for your service to our country and your humanity toward children in their time of need! Watch this wonderful documentary to see the whole story told by Col Halversen himself.

More About The Candy Bomber

Recipe of the Week

Appropriately, we have a recipe ready to be dropped from an airplane – Candy Bar Brownie Bombs! Brownies wrapped around chocolate bars and dunked in chocolate! Yum! Get the recipe here, or watch the video below. Bombs away! (Just don’t forget the parachute!)

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From Everyone Dies:

Everyone Dies: and yes, it is normal!

Everyone Dies (and yes, it is normal) is a story about a young boy named Jax who finds something special on the beach where he and his grandpa Pops are enjoying a wonderful day. Pops helps Jax understand that death is a normal part of life. This book provides an age appropriate, non-scary, comfortable way to introduce the important topic of mortality to a preschool child. Its simple explanation will last a lifetime. Autographed copies for sale at: www.everyonediesthebook.com. Also available at Amazon

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